1. Approach the man that you find attractive at the bar. Sit next to him and ask him to give you a pen. If he does not have one on him ask him to find one. When he gives you a pen, write on a napkin, “I think you are cute. Can you handle a girl that can dance better than you?” Whether you know it or not, you have broken the ice, and he will find your creativity refreshing.
2. Dance within the line of site of a good-looking guy and acknowledge him from time to time with a seductive smile that lets him know you are definitely interested chatting with him.
3. Gently brush up against the man you want on your way to get a drink at the bar. If you get his attention, tell him that he looks good and that you are looking forward to seeing what he can do on the dance floor.
4. While sitting next to the man you fancy, get a drink on the rocks and then pull the ice cube out and run it across your chest and breasts as you complain of being too hot.
5. Place your hand on his shoulder while asking if he minds if you use his big shoulders for support. Men are pleasantly surprised when women do something unexpected like this to them.
6. Never underestimate the power of a suggestive smile given from across the bar. Even if you do not feel like dancing, you can lean on the bar, drink your drink, smile, and let your eyes let him know you want him.
7. Ask him if you can buy him a drink. It works the same way when a man offers to buy you a drink . The difference is that he gets the impression that you are not one of those women that walk around in clubs looking for men to buy them drinks.
8. Make eye contact early in the night and then walk up from behind him later on and whisper something provocative in his ear.
9. Let your girlfriend play messenger to add some fun to your evening. You are your girlfriend to walk up to him and tell him that you think he is cute and that you were wondering if he would like to join you.
10. Tell a waiter or waitress to find out what he likes to drink and send it his way. Most men understand this gesture to be a sign that you find them attractive and that you would like to chat.