You’ve met a really cut guy that you like a lot. It feels exciting doesn’t it? But you want to play it cool and make him think you’re worth chasing, right?
The secret to getting your hottie to chase you is to know how to handle texting him back so you don’t appear too available or desperate.
Here Is 3 Important Tips On When To Text a Guy You Like
Tip #1: Let a guy text you first after meeting him
You want to have high worth in a guy’s eyes. Guys value what they have put their effort into.
So if you text him back first, he’ll have the impression that you have a lot of free time on your hands because other guys aren’t after you and you’ll be less attractive to him.
Tip #2: Don’t Text Him Back Right Away
After he has sent you the first text, I recommend that you wait at least 10 minutes before responding to his opening text message to you. Why?
When you are just in the early stages of getting to know someone and create attraction, you want him to think that you are a busy, popular girl with a full life so you are rarely immediately available. (You are aren’t you?) He might even start to think that you are with another hot guy and he’ll have to work harder to get you, i.e. chase you more.
Now once you reply and start texting back and forth, you can have a normal text convo and you don’t have to keep your hunk in suspense with a long pause except when you want to crank up your sex appeal.
Tip #3: Don’t text him at strange times of the day
If you text a guy at 2am, he’s going to think you are desperate. You should be sleeping at 2am, not thinking about him, if you have a full life and things to do the next day.
Also, if you know there are certain times during the day when he can’t respond to your text right away like when he’s in class or at work, text him when you know he has a break or is off work.
Now that you know when to text that hottie, here’s what to text him that is sexy, fun and flirty
When you are having a texting convo with that hot guy you like, you always want to text with the tone of being flirty and playful to crank up your sex appeal. Tease him and bust on him in a playful way. You will stand out from the other girls he is texting that are sending him boring messages.
Him: “Hey, it was good to see you at Burger Hut the other day”
You: “Yes I know, I could tell you are really into me”
You tease him and give him a challenge. Let’s see how he handles it.
Him: “Yeah, I couldn’t stop staring at that big zit on your forehead”
He’s ready to play, too. Should be fun. You are going to let him think he put his foot in his mouth and blew it with you.
You: “I was going to listen to a band on Friday night with friends and thought you’d like to come, too. Guess you’d be too embarrassed to be seen with me”
Him: “It should be dark, so it might not be that noticeable”
He continues to tease you.
After 5 minutes…
Him: “hello… “
Keep him guessing about wanting him to join you. He just “offended you,” right? Wait another 10-15 minutes, then…
You: “You can stay by the bar while I dance in front of the hot lead singer.”
You text back and you crank up your sex appeal by teasing him that you might catch another hottie’s eye. What makes this reply good is that you remind him of your value. There are many guys interested in you and you are busy doing fun things!
Most girls don’t have the nerve or know how to create uncomfortable silence to create sexual tension. His imagination is your best friend.
Him: “I’ll be good. Promise”
Good job. You reeled him in and made yourself worth chasing some more.
You: “Gota go. Call me for details on Thur”
You end the convo first. And yeah, you need to make him pick up the phone and talk to you. Real guys pick up the phone to confirm plans.
You are totally in control and he’s going to have to step it up a bit to keep your attention. Guys find this very sexy because you are a challenge. The chase is on!