Is he hot for you or not? Is that sexy smile aimed at you? You can learn how to understand his flirting gestures. Interpreting his male body language has never been easier!
1: Shifting his weight back and forth on his heels. This is considered to be subconsciously a mirroring of “knee trembling”. One of the surest body language gestures that he is hot for you.
2: Hand pointing in the direction of his pelvis. If he has his hand in his front trouser pocket, or has his hand resting on his belt, with a finger pointing straight down to his pelvis then anyone looking at him is drawn to his crotch. His whole body is highlighting his groin in this highly sexual body language stance.
3: Stroking his nose. When a man spies a woman he is attracted to, then unconscious preening begins. Other body language gestures to look out for are rearranging his clothing, rubbing a finger along an eyebrow or pushing a hand through his hair. Along with the tie, the nose is a phallic symbol.
4: Playing with his tie. The tie is basically a signpost to his penis, according to body language experts. If he should start playing with or stroking his tie, then there is a great chance that he is interested in you. By taking the initiative yourself and stroking his tie admiringly, you are giving him a very strong sexual signal.
5: Sitting with legs wide open on the barstool. By sitting like this he is offering you a great view of his crotch. If he should start to rock back and forth on the stool as well, look out. The male body language here spells the one thing on his mind is you.
6: Standing with hands on his hips. By standing like this he is emphasizing his size. By taking up more space he is appearing larger and more domineering. In cave dwelling time’s females chose the bigger males for better means of survival, which explains why many girls go for the powerful and strapping type.
7: Pelvic display. The more enthusiastic the guy is, the further apart his legs will be, irrespective of whether he is standing up or sitting down. This is considered to be very primitive flirting body language and is also behavior seen in the monkey families. Basically he is showing you his fantastic package, on a purely subconscious level, of course.
Guys have basic primal urges and are still operating off caveman instincts subconsciously. Men are still using the same body language as they did in prehistoric times, much of which is also seen in the animal kingdom. Compared to us girls, guys have a much smaller range of flirting body language gestures and those that they do use are very easy to spot. Luckily for us. Obviously reading his body can be easier than reading his mind. Look for groupings of the above for highly interested flirting signals. Three or more and he is yours!
Fortunately, now we no longer live in caves, we can at least expect some civilized gestures such as a drink and conversation before being dragged off to the modern day equivalent of the cave.