Before you start to chat online with women, you should ask yourself why you want to. What expectations do you have? What outcomes do you want? You may only want to make new friends and have fun chatting about anything that comes to mind. If you want to chat online with women as the first step in meeting them in real life, with the intention of forming relationships that will be serious or just fun, then be sure to keep regarding it as the first step. Do not fall into the trap of being indecisive about progressing to the next step. If you chat with someone that you decide you want to meet in real life, then move on to the next step quickly by getting her phone number to speak with her. If you still want to meet her after having a few phone calls, then arrange a meeting. Be bold! Do not delay!
Some men fall into the trap of just continually chatting online with Filipino girls or any women and do not move on to the next step in the process of meeting women. The process of chatting online can become addictive and more fulfilling than actually meeting real women. You should step back and take a reality check if this starts to happen to you. Reassess your objectives for chatting online with women. If your intention is to meet women in real life, then be sure to move on to the next step.
When Filipino girls or any women become interested in you and they start to become attracted to you, they'll wonder if you're a REAL man if you're indecisive. Take the opportunity to move on to the next step. Now do not get me wrong. I'm not in any way suggesting that you rush the process and talk on the phone or meet someone during your first few chats. Do not be too eager. Being too eager will make the woman feel that you're needy and maybe that you want to be with anyone, which will lessen or even turn off her attraction for you. Take your time to chat with at least a few women and then decide which of them interest you enough to progress further.
The actual process of chatting online with Filipino girls or any women has advantages and disadvantages. The main disadvantage is that you can not use body language unless you're chatting using webcams, although, even then, your body language will have less effect than in real life. Some of the advantages are
- Less chance of distractions than if you are on a date with the lady with lots of other people around.
- The conversation between you will be at a slower pace that you should take advantage of. In fact, you must dictate the pace. Take some time to reply to messages from her. This does two things; it gives you time to consider your response and by not replying immediately, you do not appear needy.
- It lets you display your intelligence by constructing correctly spelled words in grammatically correct sentences. So do not abbreviate your words and make use of a spelling and grammar checker if necessary.
- You can tease her in a playful way about any mistakes she makes in her messages, which will start the flirting process and allow you to be "Cocky and Funny." David DeAngelo first coined the phrase and described how to be "Cocky and Funny", which is one way to begin to get Filipino girls or any women attracted to you. I'll describe the process in a future article as it's a powerful way to cause attraction.
So, decide what your reasons for chatting are, know what outcomes you desire, set a slow pace while chatting, be decisive and move on to the next step quickly if that's what you want and chat to many women so that you do not restrict the possibilities of who you'll chat to and meet in real life.