I know how you feel; it's frustrating seeing those guys who are naturally great around girls chatting up women so effortlessly. That's natural, I felt the same way. Luckily, I found the secrets that mean you do not need to ever again go home by yourself if you do not want to. You do not have to be envious anymore. With a little practice, and with the right tips and techniques, it can be you.
Here are a few of the things I've learned so far.
The key to success with women is spending lots of time with them. It's very hard to get lucky if you can not keep a girl interested long enough for them to have an emotional reaction to you.
If you are lucky enough to be very good looking or have a great body than that might be enough to get her juices flowing, otherwise, for the rest of us, we're going to have to rely on our flirting and conversation skills.
It's not enough to just walk up to the object of your desire and just start babbling at her. You'll look like a fool, and she'll have a really bad first impression of you. First, do some planning, work out what your strategies are, think up some things to talk about and wait for the right moment. Making eye contact first is great, and especially so if she looks at you to see if you're noticing her.
Now that you've got a good feeling about your chances with someone, here are a few things to get straightened out in your head.
How to break the ice – this is essential for making a good impression. Pick up lines you read on the internet will not work, unless you are funny enough to make them hilarious. What you really want is something that will initiate a conversation, a topic that will get her talking. Comments about her clothes or stuff going on around you are great for this.
Keep the conversation going – do not ask yes or no questions, make sure that she replies in sentence form. You can then ask another question about her answer. "What do you think of …", rather than "Do you like …".
What to do if things slow down. If you're struggling for conversation, take a break. Buying her a drink is a great idea at this point, you get a few minutes to think of what to say and get her tipsy as well!
Chatting up women is a skill that takes practice, but you can short cut your way to success by having a really good teacher or mentor helping you along the way.