Guys, have you ever been in a situation when you met and got attracted to a girl, and found that she already has a boyfriend? Let’s face it. If a girl is attractive enough, there is a high chance that she is already in a relationship. This means that you’ve got competition even right before you start.
But don’t get disheartened just as yet. I am here to tell you that YES, it IS possible to hook up with that woman of your dreams, even though she is already in a relationship. I will tell you how to do so in this article.
First things first. The reality is that if a girl is already happy and contented with her relationship, there’s absolutely nothing you do that would make her ditch her partner to be with you. Therefore, if she decides to go out with you anyway, it is a sign that she is not that happy with her boyfriend. Which is good news for you.
How do you pull her away from her boyfriend then? Here are two surefire ways that will stack the game in your favor.
1. Develop an intense EMOTIONAL connection with her. Note the emphasis on the word ’emotional’. You must never try to give her ‘logical’ reasons to make her ditch her boyfriend and be with you. Instead, evoke emotions in her to feel pleasurable when she is with you. This way, you will bypass her ‘guilt switches’ and make it irresistible to be with you.
2. Find out what she wants in a ‘perfect’ relationship, and amplify the shortcomings of her boyfriend. This is an application of the famous ‘elicit values’ tactic used by pickup artists. First, ask her about what is important to her, and the thing that she really desires. Once you get her in this frame, quickly switch topic to talk about her boyfriend, and indirectly lead her to compare him with what she would want in an ideal relationship. Most of the time, this would make her realize how flawed her partner is.
These techniques are especially effective when her partner is not sufficiently meeting her core requirements, and more so if she is already seeking ways to leave him. You then just have to push the right buttons and she will then be yours in no time at all.