There are 3 things most if not all guys do that makes it much, much unlikely that they will ever get back together with their ex girl friend.
How to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back ( Do not do these things)
1) Believing that your ex girl friend is the ONLY woman in the whole wide world and no other woman can compare or get close to my heart … EVER!
Well, the truth is not really … sure, you hurt real bad right now … and that is completely normal. But when you put her on a pedestrial … you are actually giving her the power to reject you all over again. So you need to reframe your relationship from needing her to wanting her. Doing so will change the equation from desperation to desire for her and believe me … she will know.
Besides … being desperate is not cool … it is a turn off for her … do not give her a reason to reject you again.
2) Staying friends with your ex-girlfriend. Dude … you do not want to be "friends" with a girl you desire … because that is where you will be … so stop kidding yourself if you think being friends with your ex girlfriend will actually give you an in …
It is an out!
And besides … remaining friends with her suggests that you are absolutely fine with the break-up. Which you are obviously not … and from my research … a vast majority of break-ups that are repaired … the couple was not "friends" during the break-up … draw your conclusions.
3) Playing mind games and trying to manipulate her … Dude, that is so uncool if you are doing this. Both to yourself and her. Pleading … playing the guilt card … and trying to be logical does not work! Women are emotional creatures so stop that stuff … it is pushing your ex girl friend away to the point of no-return.
What you can take away from this article is that there are 3 common ways that guys do that actually slam the door shut – permanently! If you are doing any of these things … stop them immediately … It is the wrong thing to do if you ever want to get back together with her again.