When a guy breaks up with his girlfriend, it’s difficult to get over her especially he still loves her. To some people, this is life threatening. But I tell you, it’s somehow easy to get over your ex girlfriend than she. All you need are the tips and secrets, once you have them, you can take the bull by its horn. I have compiled some working tips I believe would enable you get over your ex girlfriend. Some of them are:
Relocation: If you live close to your ex girlfriend’s house, I think you should plan how to relocate. The more you see her, the more you reminisce on the good time memories you spent with her. Though, it’s not always easy to relocate from one house to another just because of a breakup. If this is far from your reach, I suggest you try some other tips briefed herein.
Take a look around your room, gather everything you got from ex and pack them into a box. Some people might go to the extent of burning them but I don’t think it’s a good idea. If you feel burning them is a good idea, then go ahead but think twice about this in order not to regret in time to come. Most especially her pictures, gifts and any physical properties that have to do with your ex girlfriend should be packed and kept elsewhere. Bring them out, arrange them into a box and send it to the store where you can rarely see it or remember it.
Delete her contacts from your phone: It’s better to write her phone number and keep it inside that box you sent to the store. This is necessary because the need to contact your ex girlfriend for something very important may arise. The purpose of deleting it from your phone book is to stop you from remembering her. Delete all the text messages she sent you, her multimedia messages, pictures, videos and other things about your ex girlfriend that has to do with your phone. If the phone you are using was a free gift from her, it would be nice to change it for another phone. I tell you, the more you see that phone, the more you would remember your ex.
Find something doing all the time: If you are unemployed, find a job fast. Don’t stay idle, if you do, the thoughts of your ex girlfriend will continuously bombard you. Even in your free time, find something to do like going to the park with friends, cinema, beach or something that would keep you busy. Browse the internet, find someone to talk, watch tv and have a good time. By keeping yourself busy all day, you won’t have the time to start thinking about the old time memories.
Start searching for someone else: If you find it difficult to stay without a girlfriend. I suggest you should start making moves to date another person. Girls are everywhere, the good and the bad; it depends on the type you want. When searching for another partner, make her characteristics different from your ex. Think about the characteristics you will want to see your new girlfriend posses and start to look for one.
Finally, if you still love and cherish your ex girlfriend, I think you should give her a second chance. Making up is the only way to bring her back to your life. Sometimes when couples break up and make up, the love becomes stronger because both of you won’t want what happened in the past to happen again. You will try as much as possible to avoid what caused the last breakup and respect each other when it comes to that.