If you need some basic tips and ideas to learn how to talk dirty to a woman and deliver hot and irresistible dirty talk then this article is for you. One thing you need to know before we get started is that you need to have an open mind and chances are you will need to push yourself outside your comfort zone.
If you are reading this then chances are that you don’t know what to say to a woman you are dating, girlfriend or wife. Make no mistake, women love dirty talk just as much as men and in some cases even more. The fact is that mental imagery and imagination can be just as much of a turn on as physical contact.
When it comes to learning how to talk dirty to a woman the key is confidence. Confidence does not mean acting like a big shot and letting your ego fly, it simply means that what you say to your woman is delivered with confidence. If you are worried about starting out and embarrassing yourself then chances are that is exactly what’s going to happen. Let’s look at what you can do to take away any anxiety you are feeling and get started on the right foot.
Women are different creatures to men. The BIGGEST mistake you can make is to think that your woman wants to hear what you would “love” to hear. While there is definitely some overlap in what men and women love to hear, the fact is women have different buttons you need to push.
Women love to feel wanted and needed as well as the only one you need in your life. The last thing you want to do is rip into lines from adult movies, this might get you a dirty look or a confused look like a “what the hell did you just say”?
Start off with dirty text messages that can take away the stress and allow you to test the water and see how your woman responds. Text messages can be a quick and easy way to get her excited and have her week at the knees, especially if you and her are away from one another and busy at work.
Anticipation is a huge turn on! Tell her on the phone or text message about all the naughty things you want to do her. The key is to make it about her and only her! Make her feel wanted, needed and sexy and you will see how this can turn up the heat inside the bedroom.
You can talk dirty when out in public by whispering something that you want to do to her when you get home OR tell her you want to take her right there and then. Whatever your approach do not mumble or fumble your way through your dirty talk! Be confident and positive, be THE man!
When you are face to face you can tell her how hot she is and how much she turns you on. Women have egos just like men so make sure you push these buttons and make her feel as if she is the only one for you and the only one you want. Whisper in her ear all the things you know she loves you doing to her or the naughty things she loves doing to you.
It is important to play it by ear and see how she responds. Making eye contact and giving her “that look” can make her knees wobble. It will shock you how powerful eye contact and an authoritative voice, look and approach can make her beg you for more.
Toning it up and down is important depending on where you are. You can say something naughty when you are out with friends or out to dinner. Like I mentioned before, anticipation can leave her eager to rip your close off as soon as the both of you are alone. You need to know when to up the ante, this will come with experience. Some women love very “hard” dirty talk like some men, you need to be careful and adjust appropriately, don’t just jump in there and expect to make her excited.
There is no need to stress out about it or worry. Getting started is the hardest step, once you get a little bit of confidence you will see just how powerful your words can be to make any women weak at the knees!